**It’s Okay to Not Be Okay: The Power of Silence and Listening**

 **It’s Okay to Not Be Okay: The Power of Silence and Listening**

Sometimes, life gets overwhelming, and it’s okay to admit that you’re not okay. We often feel the need to put on a brave face or hide our struggles, but true strength comes from allowing ourselves to be vulnerable. It’s okay to sit in silence, to feel hurt, and to take time to listen to what our hearts truly need.

My dad was a man of few words, but he listened a lot. He didn’t always have many things to say, but when he was silent, I knew he was truly present. His quiet strength and ability to listen taught me something important: sometimes, the best thing we can do is simply listen. Listening doesn’t mean we have to fix everything or give advice; it’s about showing compassion and understanding.

Maybe that’s why God gave us two ears and one mouth—to remind us to listen more than we speak. And more importantly, to listen to His voice. During difficult moments, it’s in that quiet space that we can hear God’s guidance, comfort, and love. Listening to God's voice helps us find clarity, peace, and strength when everything else feels uncertain.

So, if you’re feeling overwhelmed or silent today, remember that it’s okay. It’s okay to not have all the answers and to need time to process. Embrace the silence, listen to your heart, and most importantly, listen to God's voice. He’s always speaking to us, quietly guiding us through every storm.

My dad’s quiet strength continues to teach me that sometimes, words aren’t necessary. Just being present, listening, and tuning into God's voice can make all the difference.

 **The Most Rewarding and Painful Walk: Being a Pastor’s Wife**

Being a pastor’s wife is one of the most unique experiences a woman can have. It’s a walk filled with moments of deep joy, heartfelt pain, and countless lessons. Looking back, I can honestly say that this journey has been both the most rewarding and the most painful thing I’ve ever done. And yet, I wouldn’t trade it for anything.

There’s nothing quite like seeing your church family grow in faith, witnessing lives change, and being part of their spiritual journeys. Sometimes, it’s a simple hug or a kind word that reminds me why I do what I do. Supporting my husband in his calling means being there for people during their happiest moments—like weddings and baptisms—and their hardest times—like loss and grief. Those moments of connection and love make my heart swell with gratitude. They remind me that serving in this role isn’t just a job; it’s a calling that touches lives and builds community.

But it’s not always easy. There are times when the weight of responsibility feels overwhelming. Criticism, misunderstandings, or feeling like I don’t quite measure up can be painful. Sometimes, I have to sacrifice personal time or put my feelings aside to support others. The emotional rollercoaster can be exhausting, and I’ve learned that it’s okay to feel tired or discouraged. This journey has taught me resilience, patience, and the importance of leaning on my faith during tough times.

Despite the challenges, I wouldn’t give up this walk for anything. The rewards—the genuine relationships, the spiritual growth, the chance to serve others—far outweigh the difficulties. This role has helped me become a stronger, more compassionate person. It has taught me humility and the importance of unconditional love. Most importantly, it’s deepened my faith and trust in God’s plan for my life.

 **A Yellow Rubber Bracelet: More Than Just a Piece of Jewelry**

Since our grandbaby was diagnosed with neuroblastoma, I’ve worn a simple yellow rubber bracelet inscribed with Jeremiah 29:11: *"For I know the plans I have for you..."* It’s been more than just an accessory; it’s a symbol of hope, faith, and perseverance. I’ve had it on continuously, only removing it once when I broke my hand. Honestly, I think I cried more that day because they had to cut it off than from the pain in my hand.

My husband, sensing how much the bracelet meant to me, felt sorry for my loss when it was gone. He surprised me with another one just like the previous one—just as meaningful, just as precious. It’s funny how we can become attached to seemingly meaningless things, yet they hold deep sentimental value. For me, this bracelet is a reminder of what my granddaughter has overcome and the strength of faith that carried us through difficult times. I am overjoyed that she is now cancer free and thanking God everyday. 

Why do we cling to these small tokens? Perhaps because they represent hope, resilience, and the love that sustains us. This bracelet isn’t just rubber—it's a symbol of her courage, our faith, and the blessings that continue to inspire us every day.

 **Christianity: About Relationship, Not Just Religion**

Many people think being a Christian is about going to church, dressing up on Sundays, or following a set of rules. But the truth is, Christianity is much more than that. It’s about having a real, personal relationship with Jesus Christ. It’s about knowing Him deeply and allowing His love to change our hearts.

When we truly follow Jesus, His love shines through everything we do. Our actions, words, and attitudes become reflections of His kindness and grace. It’s not about wearing a cross or attending church—it’s about living like Jesus every day.

When others see us loving others, forgiving those who hurt us, and showing kindness even when it’s hard, they see Jesus in us. That’s what makes the difference. Because real Christianity isn’t just a title—it’s a daily walk with Jesus that shows in how we treat others.

So let’s focus on building that relationship. Let’s let His love guide us so that others can see Jesus in our lives. When we do, we become a light that points others to Him, not because of what we wear or where we go, but because of how we live.

The Resilient Journey: Rising Strong with God's Grace

 **Get Back Up: The Power of Resilience in God's Grace**

Life can leave us feeling tired, broken, overwhelmed, and sometimes even like failures. It’s easy to think that these feelings define us, but the truth is, they don’t. You are not a failure—you're simply human, and everyone faces struggles.

Yes, you may feel exhausted, but remember: God is your strength when you are weak (2 Corinthians 12:9). When your heart feels broken, He mends it with His love and grace. Overwhelmed? God promises that He will never give us more than we can bear (1 Corinthians 10:13). And failure? It’s just a part of life’s journey—what matters is how we respond.

The true test of character isn’t how many times we fall; it’s whether we get back up. Every setback is an opportunity to grow stronger, to lean on God's strength, and to rise again with renewed hope and purpose.

So, no matter what you're facing today, remember: you are not defined by your struggles. Character is shown in the courage to get back up. Keep going—God’s grace is enough to carry you through.

**Jesus Is. Nothing Else Matters.**

Recently, I came across a quote that made me stop and think. Jesus Is (Period). Those simple words made me stop and realize what really matters in life. 

In a world full of noise and distractions, it’s easy to forget what truly matters. Sometimes, we search for happiness in things that don’t last—money, popularity, or material possessions. But when we focus on Jesus, everything else becomes clearer.

Jesus is the source of love, hope, and peace. When we say “Jesus is,” we’re acknowledging that He is everything we need. He is our comfort in times of sadness, our strength when we feel weak, and our guide when we’re lost. Nothing else compares to the salvation and joy that come from knowing Him.

It’s simple but powerful — Jesus is. Period. Nothing else matters more. When we put our trust in Him, we find purpose and peace that can’t be found anywhere else. His love is enough to fill our hearts and change our lives.

So, no matter what struggles we face or how busy life gets, remember: Jesus is. Nothing else matters more than walking with Him and trusting in His plan. And in that truth, we find true happiness and eternal hope.

A Journey of Integrity

**What Is Right Is Right — What Is Wrong Is Wrong**

In life, there is a simple truth: what is right is right, and what is wrong is wrong. When making decisions, it’s important to focus on doing what is right, regardless of feelings or what others might say.  

When did we start including our feelings so much when deciding what is right or wrong? Honestly, that bothers me. Feelings can change, but truth remains the same. We should base our choices on what is truly right, not just how we feel in the moment or what others think.  

On Judgment Day, God will not care about our feelings or what our friends said. He will only ask if we stood up for what is right or if we chose to do what was wrong. The standard is clear—honesty and righteousness matter most.  

So, no matter how difficult it is, always choose what is right. Leave feelings out of it. Focus on what is true and just. Remember, in the end, the only thing that matters is whether you stood for what is right or not.