**It’s Okay to Not Be Okay: The Power of Silence and Listening**

 **It’s Okay to Not Be Okay: The Power of Silence and Listening**

Sometimes, life gets overwhelming, and it’s okay to admit that you’re not okay. We often feel the need to put on a brave face or hide our struggles, but true strength comes from allowing ourselves to be vulnerable. It’s okay to sit in silence, to feel hurt, and to take time to listen to what our hearts truly need.

My dad was a man of few words, but he listened a lot. He didn’t always have many things to say, but when he was silent, I knew he was truly present. His quiet strength and ability to listen taught me something important: sometimes, the best thing we can do is simply listen. Listening doesn’t mean we have to fix everything or give advice; it’s about showing compassion and understanding.

Maybe that’s why God gave us two ears and one mouth—to remind us to listen more than we speak. And more importantly, to listen to His voice. During difficult moments, it’s in that quiet space that we can hear God’s guidance, comfort, and love. Listening to God's voice helps us find clarity, peace, and strength when everything else feels uncertain.

So, if you’re feeling overwhelmed or silent today, remember that it’s okay. It’s okay to not have all the answers and to need time to process. Embrace the silence, listen to your heart, and most importantly, listen to God's voice. He’s always speaking to us, quietly guiding us through every storm.

My dad’s quiet strength continues to teach me that sometimes, words aren’t necessary. Just being present, listening, and tuning into God's voice can make all the difference.

 **The Most Rewarding and Painful Walk: Being a Pastor’s Wife**

Being a pastor’s wife is one of the most unique experiences a woman can have. It’s a walk filled with moments of deep joy, heartfelt pain, and countless lessons. Looking back, I can honestly say that this journey has been both the most rewarding and the most painful thing I’ve ever done. And yet, I wouldn’t trade it for anything.

There’s nothing quite like seeing your church family grow in faith, witnessing lives change, and being part of their spiritual journeys. Sometimes, it’s a simple hug or a kind word that reminds me why I do what I do. Supporting my husband in his calling means being there for people during their happiest moments—like weddings and baptisms—and their hardest times—like loss and grief. Those moments of connection and love make my heart swell with gratitude. They remind me that serving in this role isn’t just a job; it’s a calling that touches lives and builds community.

But it’s not always easy. There are times when the weight of responsibility feels overwhelming. Criticism, misunderstandings, or feeling like I don’t quite measure up can be painful. Sometimes, I have to sacrifice personal time or put my feelings aside to support others. The emotional rollercoaster can be exhausting, and I’ve learned that it’s okay to feel tired or discouraged. This journey has taught me resilience, patience, and the importance of leaning on my faith during tough times.

Despite the challenges, I wouldn’t give up this walk for anything. The rewards—the genuine relationships, the spiritual growth, the chance to serve others—far outweigh the difficulties. This role has helped me become a stronger, more compassionate person. It has taught me humility and the importance of unconditional love. Most importantly, it’s deepened my faith and trust in God’s plan for my life.