Friday, October 17, 2025

The Sisters' Journey - A Walk Down Memory Lane




**Sisters: A Walk Down Memory Lane**  

Growing up with a sisters is like having a built-in best friend for life. From the moment we were little, we shared secrets, laughter, tears, and a few misadventures that still make us smile today.  

Last night, we were texting each other, reminiscing about the silly things we did, and I found myself laughing so hard—one of those laughs where I was crying. We were reminded of the time my baby sister fell asleep in church and accidentally peed—right there on those old hard wooden pews. Everyone had wet butts, and we all thought Granny had an accident.  

Then there was the time my sister and I got into a fight in the garden. It was so hot, we were so aggravated, and just ready to go home. Instead of calming down, we took it out on each other—and she made me eat dirt!  

And let's not forget the day my baby sister got to experience what it felt like to get into trouble for turning the pages in the Bible too loud during church—though to this day, she insists it wasn’t her. Although, I don't know how you can turn pages too loud. 😂 There was also the middle sister, who got a bad grade in school and then thought she could escape punishment by jumping on the bed—like if she jumped high enough, she could get away from Dad. That didn’t work, of course!

I also remembered how Dad would sometimes slip out of church without me noticing, then come back in and sit right behind me. On the way home, he’d ask what the preacher had spoken about. Let’s just say, I quickly learned to stop talking, pay attention and take notes!  I became the best note taker. 

We laughed so hard, and those moments brought back a flood of memories.  

Thinking about all these moments made me miss my dad so much, but it also made me love my parents even more for what they instilled in us growing up. Those lessons, those laughs, those messes—they all shaped us into the women we are today.  

We got into trouble quite a bit, we were kids. But looking back, I realize those moments—those wild, funny, and sometimes messy times—are what made our family special. They remind me that family is a gift, and the love we share is something we carry with us forever.  

So here’s to my sisters—no matter how many years pass or how far apart we may be, those memories will always warm my heart and remind me of the beautiful chaos and unconditional love we shared growing up.  



Tuesday, October 14, 2025

The Journey To Inner Freedom - Dropping The Mask


Recently I decided to do some self-care and put on a charcoal face mask. You know, the kind that helps clean your face and makes you look a little spooky? I sat in the living room, working on some things, and didn’t think much about it. I was just relaxing and enjoying my little moment of quiet.

I sat there for about 20 minutes, totally unaware that my husband hadn’t noticed a thing. But then, out of nowhere, he looked in my direction and then looked twice!

His eyes got really big, and he looked so surprised—like he’d seen a ghost from another world. All he saw was me sitting there, with a dark face, working away, looking kind of strange. Later it made me think about something deeper.

Sometimes we wear masks—to hide how we really feel inside (Oh, I'm okay- heard that before - when in reality we are really not). We pretend everything is okay when deep down, we’re hurting or concerned. We act strong when we feel scared, or we hide our struggles because we’re afraid others might see our weaknesses. We wear these masks so no one can see what’s really going on.

Take the mask off and come to God with all the flaws, fears, struggles and all.  God sees the real us anyway, why try to hide it - the mask is not doing anything.  He loves all our imperfections and weaknesses. He knows our hearts and loves us anyway.

So,  I remind myself—and you—that it’s okay to stop pretending. We do not have to hide our feelings and act like everything is fine when it’s not. God invites us to come to Him honestly, with all our concerns and imperfections. When we stop wearing masks and come to Him as we are, His love makes us whole and real.

Don’t hide behind those masks. Be brave enough to show your true self to God, because He loves you just as you are. He can change you from the inside out - And in His love, you will find the strength to allow Him to do so.